‘It didn’t matter whose child I rescued’: parents of Iran school bombing victims describe their worst day | Children

Zahra’s family

When Marzieh heard the first bang, an almighty crash that rattled the room, her first thought went to her youngest son, Mohammad. He must have got out on to the balcony and discovered a new game, she thought: using all of his small might to smash its sliding doors closed. Marzieh stood up from where she was working at her sewing machine, and shouted for him to stop.

“Mum, it wasn’t me,” he called back.

Then, the second crash sounded, the force of it making the entire house tremble. Could it be the neighbours, she wondered – construction work, renovations? But even as the thought occurred, she knew it wasn’t right: their nextdoor neighbours had all left for work that morning, and only she and Mohammad were at home.

Just a few minutes earlier, at 11.17am, Marzieh had received an abrupt phone call from Mrs Mohammadian, her eight-year-old daughter Zahra’s teacher. The primary school, a few blocks away, was closing early, she said – could the family pick Zahra up? But Mrs Mohammadian hadn’t said why, swiftly concluding the message to call the next parent on her list. Marzieh rang her husband at work, who sent his brother to pick up the girls – Zahra and her cousin were in the same class.

Eight-year-old Zahra Behroozi

Now, standing in the house, Marzieh felt a strange, numb feeling settle in. She looked down, and noticed she was shaking. From the street outside she could hear voices, and so Marzieh gathered up Mohammad, rushing to find her chador (veil) to leave the house. As she opened the door, the acrid smell of smoke hit her. People ran back and forth down the road. She stopped someone to ask what was happening. “War has started,” they said.

Sobhan and Hanieh’s family

That morning had dawned clear, gentle, almost completely cloudless, and Mohammadreza Ahmadi had opted to take the school run. His work sometimes took him away from Minab for weeks at a time, so when he was home he liked to make the most of his time with the children: Sobhan, 10, Hanieh, seven, and their younger sister Hannan, still a toddler.

Sobhan was particularly devoted to his father. An affectionate, demonstrative boy with bright wide eyes and a thick thatch of wavy hair, he would follow his father from room to room and loved to leap on Ahmadi’s shoulders, undeterred by scolding that he could hurt Dad’s back. Both parents doted on Sobhan – their only son, he arrived after a series of miscarriages and a difficult pregnancy for Marzieh Ashena.

Shortly after he was born, they were told that his growth was delayed. As Sobhan grew into a happy but non-verbal toddler, they devoted themselves to helping him thrive. Every weekday, Ashena – then pregnant with Hanieh – would take her son to a language therapy centre in Bandar Abbas, a three-hour round trip from Minab. At four, he learned to speak. So it was no small thing to have him attending the local primary school with his sister. Hanieh was playful, the clown of the family: she liked to copy accents and make her parents laugh. She had taken to imitating her mother as she did the housework: her new favourite game was to empty her entire wardrobe on to the bed and then, imperfectly but with great concentration, fold each item back up.

Seven year-old Hanieh Ahmadi and her brother Soban Ahmadi, 10. Photograph: Handout

When Ahmadi dropped them off that morning, Sobhan tumbled out of the car and grabbed Hanieh in a bear hug, making their father chuckle. I am lucky to have a son who cares so much for his sister, he thought. He waited at the kerb, watching until the children disappeared into the school doorway before driving away.

A few hours later, he got a call from Sobhan’s teacher that the children would need to be picked up. Ahmadi got back in the car and headed for the school.

Arya’s family

A little way across town, Marzieh Mansouri, too, had received the call. Her phone lit up at 11.05, with the number of Mrs Zamani, a teacher at her son Arya’s school. When she saw the contact on the screen, Mansouri, a stay-at-home mum and “generally anxious person”, immediately began to worry. Arya, nine, was a careful, studious boy, with a thick, side-swept fringe, large pair of red-framed glasses and gentle dimples. He was close to his mother; he would watch her make cakes, carefully writing the ingredients on a Post-it note and sticking it to the fridge so he could try it himself. She wondered if he was sick, or had a cold. “Is he OK?” she asked.

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Nine year-old Arya Bahadori Photograph: Handout

Mrs Zamani reassured her: Arya was fine, but the school was closing after news of an attack on Tehran, and someone would have to come and pick him up. Amazed, Mansouri turned on the television, watching the news of the US-Israeli attack as she tried to contact her brother to bring Arya home. Silently, she began to pray.

Zahra

As thick smoke drifted down her street, Marzieh stepped back into the shade of the garage. With Mohammad playing on the floor next to her, she made call after call. She rang her brother-in-law, who was picking up the girls. She called his wife, to see if they were safe. She rang her husband – he too was making his way to the school. She dialled the brother-in-law again: nothing.

Then, the phone lit up with her brother’s number. He had heard a rumour that a bomb had hit the school, he said. Where was Zahra?

Marzieh called Zahra’s teacher, Mrs Mohammadian. No answer. She called her Qur’an teacher, Mrs Kamali. No answer. She called the school principal. Nothing. Going through her contacts, she called every number she had saved for someone connected to the school over the years that her children had attended – every teacher, every administrator, even the caretaker.

One by one, they rang out. No one answered.

The school’s teachers, almost all of whom were killed in the strike.

Arya

As she tried to digest the news that war had arrived in Tehran, Mansouri, too, had heard a distant bang, followed by another a few minutes later. Suddenly, her husband called. He was at work, teaching a culture class in a nearby village. “What’s happening?” she asked him. A plane had flown over, he said, and had hit something in Minab – he wasn’t sure what. Hanging up, she called Mrs Zamani back to check on Arya, but this time there was no answer.

Mansouri was jolted by a bang at the door. Opening it, she found the neighbourhood in turmoil. In the chaos, she heard someone say that a building near the school had been hit. She started yelling in panic, screaming for someone to check what had happened, to see if the school was OK. At some point, she found herself crouching by the side of the road as neighbours tried to calm her. She called her brother again, who was picking up the children. “Has the school been hit?” she asked him.

“Yes,” he replied.

A still image taken from video shows smoke billowing after the missile, believed to be Tomahawk, hit the school Photograph: Mehr News/Reuters

Mansouri tried to compose herself. Surely, even if it were damaged, she reasoned, the school would not have taken a direct hit. When her relatives arrived she insisted they drive her straight there. As they got closer, the roads were choked with cars, hundreds of people trying to reach the same destination. A few blocks from the school, three men directing traffic brought them to a halt.

Then, Mansouri spotted a figure out the window: a woman, wearing the uniform of the school’s staff, walking away from the building. She was completely covered, head to toe, with grey dust. Mansouri called out to her: had she seen Arya’s teacher? Had she seen Mrs Zamani?

The woman just looked at her mutely. She did not answer. Then she walked away.

Sobhan and Hanieh

Ahmadi, too, had been halted by the gridlock surrounding the school. After sitting at a standstill, he parked the car and made his way to the school on foot.

But when he walked through the gate, he could not understand what he was seeing. “I was confused and kept searching for my children’s classrooms,” he says. The scene made no sense. “My daughter’s classroom was entirely flattened.”

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Zahra

Hossein, Marzieh’s husband, had been the first of them to arrive. Walking through the school gates, he saw a scene of devastation.

The school building was segregated, with a staircase and a door separating the girls’ and boys’ sections. The boys’ section was still partly standing. But the area where the girls took their lessons had been levelled. All he could see was a grey mass of dust and rubble.

Parents and volunteers surround the damaged school building. Photograph: Alex Mita/IRIB TV/AFP/Getty Images

Rushing forward, Hossein joined the men at the pile of debris, heaving up chunks of stone, hoping to find a child beneath them – injured, perhaps, but alive. He concentrated his efforts near where he thought the school’s staircase would have been: he had an idea that Zahra “might have tried to escape and got stuck”, he says. The air filled with the shouts of men and wailing of women. Hossein worked methodically. He dug, tossed the stone aside, dug.

Somewhere in the chaos, Marzieh, too, had arrived at the school, after begging a neighbour to drive her. As she looked across the yard to the girls’ section, “all I saw was rubble”, she says. Each time a child was dragged out, she would ask if they were alive. Occasionally, someone would say yes, and the women around her would say: “See, they are alive. Pray!”

She thought of Zahra. Their joy when she had been born, the first girl grandchild in the whole family. Her chubbiness as a baby. Her fondness for being proper, even as a toddler – always making sure her dress and trousers were just right. Her love of paper crafts, cutting and pasting until the entire house smelled of glue. Her precociousness: when her parents took a photo she particularly liked, she would take the phone and set her own face as the background.

Marzieh took out her phone, and Zahra’s face looked back at her. She started playing audio of a prayer, to calm herself. She watched to see if Zahra would be next pulled from the rubble.

Arya

As Mansouri sat trapped in traffic, her husband, Morteza Bahadori, was also trying to get to the school. Reaching the gridlocked vehicles, he abandoned his car and began making his way to the school on foot, running for as long as he could, then slowing to a walk when he felt light-headed, his energy drained by the Ramadan fast.

Bahadori had been told that the nearby hospital had been hit – the idea that the school itself could be struck didn’t even cross his mind. As he jogged, he worried and planned. “All I could think about was how terrified Arya must be,” he says. Bahadori didn’t have much time with his son: he worked two jobs, doing shifts at a restaurant in the evenings, but the two were still close. Arya liked to help him load the car with things for the restaurant when he left each night. Sometimes the parents wondered if their boy would be embarrassed that their father had to work another job, but they never saw even a flicker of schoolboy shame.

Arya Bahadori’s classroom was entirely destroyed. Photograph: Handout

As he got closer, Bahadori wondered if there could be superficial damage to the school, given it was near the hospital. He wondered if Arya might have cuts or grazes, whether they would need to take him somewhere for a medical checkup. As he made his way there, he started to see other parents sprinting towards the school, which surprised him.

Nothing prepared him for what he saw when he entered the gates. “Arya’s classroom had been completely destroyed – there was absolutely nothing left,” he says. “It was flattened to the ground.” This moment – the sight through the gate, the thick cloud of dust obscuring the blue sky – was the worst he endured. Then, Bahadori stepped to the ruins to look for his boy. Over and over, he and the men would grip a piece of rubble, heave it upwards together, look for a child underneath.

Parents and volunteers dig through the rubble. Photograph: Abbas Zakeri/Mehr News/WANA/Reuters

It would be hours before news broke to the rest of the world of the bombing; days before enough evidence accumulated – video, satellite images, missile fragments, leaked military briefings – to say definitively that a US missile had obliterated the school. For now, the men dug.

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Zahra

As he pulled at the debris, word reached Hossein from parents in the crowd that Zahra had already been found. She had been among the first girls to be pulled from the rubble, and a photograph of her small body had been shared on social media, rippling around messaging apps as news of the bombing spread. Looking at the photo, he recognised Zahra’s face, her small frame. He drove to the morgue to look for her.

There, Hossein found his daughter. The headscarf that she was always so careful to pin in place – just so – had slipped. “Her head was broken,” he says. Her ribs, too, had caved in. But the rest of her body was still intact. She was covered with dust.

That’s her, he told the morgue staff: her name is Zahra Behroozi. She was eight years old.

Sobhan and Hanieh

Soon, Ahmadi, too, made his way to the morgue. He found Hanieh, looking almost like herself. Her skull was fractured, but her face was intact. And he recognised Sobhan immediately, at first glance, even though he was severely injured. Both his legs were broken. He was missing an eye. Half his face was gone.

Later, one of the mothers told Ashena that a few of the boys ran out of the school on to the playground when they heard the first explosion – they had survived the blast. Sobhan however, realising that Hanieh was still inside, went back in to find her.

A school bag discovered in the debris. Parents helped to search for survivors even when they knew their own children had died. Photograph: Xinhua/Alamy

Yes, these were his children, Ahmadi told the morgue staff. Their names were Sobhan Ahmadi Tifakani and Hanieh Ahmadi Tifakani. He was 10 years old. She was seven.

Arya

As relatives arrived, Bahadori dispatched them to find out if Arya could have been found and taken elsewhere, to a hospital or clinic. But when he stepped back and looked at the collapsed school, he thought: “If Arya was inside and under the rubble, only a miracle could bring him out.”

When Bahadori and Mansouri were told that their son was in the morgue, they could not bear to go through with the formal identification. In the end, it was Bahadori’s brothers, Arya’s uncles, who confirmed his identity and filled out the paperwork. His name was Arya Bahadori. He was nine years old.

Zahra

As he left the morgue, Hossein did not drive home. Instead, he found himself steering the car back to the schoolyard. He parked some distance away, walking back to the place where his girl had died. There, he took his place back at the pile of rubble, with the men still digging.

Occasionally, someone recognised Hossein. They knew that Zahra was dead. They urged him to rest: “Go home,” they said. He ignored them.

As he dug, he thought of the other girls, small bodies curled beneath the weight of the wreckage. “Even though my daughter had been found, many others remained trapped,” he says, remembering. “It didn’t matter whose child I rescued. They were all like my own daughters.”

He did not stop digging, even as light softened and began to fade. He pulled at the debris, the fistfuls of dust, as dusk began to fall and the shadows from the trees lengthened over the empty football pitch. He stayed there until late in the evening.

The strike killed up to 168 people and is the worst mass casualty of the Iran war Photograph: Anadolu/Getty Images

The aftermath

One month on from the Minab bombing, no one has been held accountable for the strike that killed at least 160 children and teachers. The US military has said it is “investigating”. President Donald Trump has denied the country was responsible.

Zahra’s father hopes the world knows that the school was just that: a place of learning, not a military site. He asks the UN, the international courts, to come to Minab and see. “They must see the rubble and the surrounding area. They must recognise the crimes committed by the United States,” he says. “We demand justice.”

Sobhan and Hanieh’s parents have little hope for justice. The international community are “witnessing everything themselves,” they say. “No matter what we say to them, that will not change anything.”

Arya’s parents were too distraught to attend his official funeral.

His toddler brother, Arsalan, still does not understand where Arya has gone. He greets Bahadori at the door each afternoon, at the time when his father used to drop off Arya from school. “Dada?” he asks – a shortened version of ‘dadash’, the Farsi word for brother.

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